The only thing you control is your perspective. No matter what happens to you, you have control over the meaning you give to events and things. So what you do with the meaning you give to causes leads you to the circumstances.
Failure is only part of your journey to success. There is no history of success that has never experienced failure. The reason you hear these stories as success stories is because these successful people saw failure as a tool to achieve success.
It’s not about what you want to do to live, it’s about who you want to become. What is the purpose of your life, what trace do you want left in life? Do not ask yourself the question: What do you want to do in 10 years?, Ask yourself: Who do you want to be in 10 years? What trace do you want to leave in this world? How would you like him to remember you? From here on you can only wonder what will happen to make this happen.